Comments on: answers.

By: SocialSecurity

SocialSecurity — Wed, 28 May 2008 03:04:00 +0000

You need to read my last 2 posts. I swear I wasn’t plagiarizing you…I will just say…I think I know how you feel…

By: brookem

brookem — Tue, 27 May 2008 15:01:00 +0000

it’s hard when a heartbroken friend comes to you and you can’t just make things all better for them. that has to be one of the toughest feelings in the world… but like anything else, you cant get around the emotions, all you can really do is go through the experience to get through it.

and, it’s tough meeting decent (good haired, layered, funny, witty) men in boston. it just is.

By: The Tranquil Doorman

The Tranquil Doorman — Tue, 27 May 2008 02:44:00 +0000

I also hate not having the answers. What bothers me even more than that is when I give advice that I know I wouldn’t follow. It’s not that I wouldn’t follow it because I think it’s wrong, but because I’m rarely one to use my head and I try to give sensible advice.

By: Paula

Paula — Mon, 26 May 2008 19:14:00 +0000

I hate not having the answers to things either – how are you meant to know whether you did something right or wrong and therefore learn from your mistakes if you just DON’T KNOW! It’s so frustrating. But I guess if something hasn’t worked out, we know we did SOMETHING wrong. Or, more likely, that the OTHER PERSON did…

By: Therapeutic Ramblings

Therapeutic Ramblings — Sun, 25 May 2008 04:21:00 +0000

I'm with ya too. Heck, I just wrote about
Craigslist: Casual Encounters because once I stumbled on it, I started looking for decent ones. How far I've fallen....LOL!

By: Katelin

Katelin — Fri, 23 May 2008 19:04:00 +0000

I definitely agree with you on that one. no matter what you experience or go through i’m pretty sure we’ll never have the answers to figuring it all out. we can just hope we’re doing something right every once and a while.

By: L Sass

L Sass — Fri, 23 May 2008 17:53:00 +0000

When did you graduate from college? The springs two and three years out of college for me were RIFE with a lot of college / just after college relationships getting married or breaking up. (Often the latter, heartwrenchingly.)

It can make you depressed, to be sure.

I think enthusiasm for dating comes in fits and spurts. Just cause you’re not that into it right now, doesn’t mean you won’t be again. And, you know, sometimes the cliche is true–when you’re focused on having fun with friends and pursuing your own projects and hobbies, good things happen!

By: Damsel in Digress

Damsel in Digress — Fri, 23 May 2008 17:32:00 +0000

ah, i just wrote something about that feeling where you just don't *know* ... where the answers seem to be missing.

it can be so hard trying to give people the right advice when we don't even have the right advice for ourselves. i like how honest you are in this. sometimes i'll give advice that i think is the right thing to say - maybe if i examined that closer, i'd have to decided that i'm not so sure about what i'm saying.

i think, and i hope to not be the jinx by saying this, that it's exactly when you feel the way you describe that something can happen to completely sweep you off your feet one way or another. i know that's how it happened with me.

anyway. it'll take a really special guy to deserve you =)

By: me & them

me & them — Fri, 23 May 2008 07:26:00 +0000

I feel you. I suddenly feel like I’m so blase and cynical about love/relationships etc. I was always the girl who wanted to get married – and thought i’d be first – but I’m strangely worried I don’t think I could be with the one person for life. SCARY.

I wish I had answers, for myself and everyone else. I guess it either comes with time, or you just learn some way to deal with the unknown.

Smile sweety