almost new look and lots of tags.

July 2nd, 2009

So, I have a new blog. Kind of. It’s a start anyway. The big news is that it’s been transferred over to WordPress. Yay! Chels and I are also in the process of transferring We are not Martha over to WordPress (and are getting ready to unveil a bit of a new look!). Since I have so much experience with WP from several of my writing jobs, I’m pretty used to it. And blogger is driving me beyond crazy lately! I hate change like whoa, but I think this is one I can deal with.

But I know much of my lack in blogging here has been due to the ugliness of my blog! I still need to fix this up, personalize it more, get rid of my 38293982 tags, etc. but then I think I’ll be feeling good!

Speaking of, what is up with all my tags? There are SO many random ones!! And it’s making me feel like I need to go back and read every single one of my old blog entries because what on Earth am I talking about?? Some of the most confusing ones are below:

  • You can try but I still won’t shut up
  • Want to become an alcoholic?
  • Toys that make me feel dumb
  • I suck at arts and crafts
  • Should guys wear eyeliner?
  • How do you have a party without drinking games?
  • My mom sings inappropriate song lyrics at work
  • Destroying ex’s property
  • Looking into someone’s shower
  • Can you tell that a woman is single and unlaid just from her apartment
  • Imaginary boyfriend
  • I was almost killed by elderly and I almost killed them

This makes me question what my is even about. But then again, I kind of love it. I am a pretty random person after all. And so, in case you were concerned, my story continues. With hopefully fewer tags.

that elusive "real" job.

June 8th, 2009

The other day I had my first realization that I don’t want a “real” job. Maybe ever. This both excites and scares me. Ever since I quit my office job to try freelancing for a bit, I always continued to look for “real” full-time jobs that I would love and thrive in. The other day, I saw one and was about to apply when I realized how much I love my life right now and how much I don’t want it to change.

No, I’m not making bank yet, but I am surviving, probably better than I thought was possible as a writer working from home. I don’t want to work a “real” job being told what to do every week, making the same amount of money every week, and having every day be the same. I love working on something different every day, never knowing what’s going to pop up, deciding what I have time and passion for, and seeing what goals I can accomplish. I love never knowing what’s going to happen next!
I get lonely working at home sometimes, but is that loneliness enough to deal with the annoying-ness of co-workers? I do have a weird thing for offices. Feeling like I’m part of a team and communicating with people daily. I know everyone working in an office right now will tell me to shut up. But it’s probably me just thinking the grass is greener (or greener in some spots; dead in others). Some of my freelance jobs really make me feel like a part of a team, while others make me feel like a total outsider.
But maybe someday I’ll have my own office. It just seems like it would be such a waste to put all my projects aside for a “real” job. I’ve come so far, if I turn back now, I’ll never know where I’d be a year from now.
My friends have always yelled at me when I talk about my job versus a “real” job. “Your job is real!” they say. And after 2+ years, I’m starting to realize they’re right.
And yes, my parents still wonder when I’m going to get a “real” job. And I hope someday they’ll realize that I already have. I don’t know too many people who can say they love what they do for work at age 26. But my life just keeps on getting better every day.

dear diary 1990 style.

April 15th, 2009


When I was at home last weekend, I came across all my old diaries. I started a diary when I turned 8 and kept going straight through college. Then I discovered blogging and forgot how to write with a pen and paper. Most of the content in these diaries is pure embarrassment. Like, really bad. I almost wanted to throw them all away because, what on Earth was wrong with me? But then, there are some good memories in them so I figure I need to save them forever. The funniest was the first diary, which took me from age 8 to age 12 to fill up. I’m sharing some of the more hilarious tidbits below; mostly from the earlier pages because, as I get older, it gets more embarrassing. And yes, I did write “Dear Diary” before each entry in the first diary.

By the way, it is absolutely SHOCKING how horrible my spelling (and penmanship was). We’re talking I could barely read half the stuff because my writing was so bad. I couldn’t spell for anything. Who would have thought I’d end up being such a writerly grammar-freak?! I’ve spared you the horribleness and translated the writing for you:

1990:

“Right now I am watching Punky Brewster, the dog is lost. And after Punky is Small Wonder and then Family Ties is on then Alf then Cheers.”


Woo hoo to early 90s TV. And to the times when I had nothing better to do it than watch it. Also, I never watched Cheers? Especially when I was 8! Plus, I wasn’t allowed to watch Family Ties. Not sure why.
1990:
“Tomorrow is my friend’s birthday and she doesn’t like My Little Ponies and we got her one. What should we do?”

Gosh, life was tough, right? Also, who the eff doesn’t like My Little Ponies? I wish I knew whose birthday this was.
1990:
“Yesterday my dog was crying because today the dog my dog is related to is coming over and they got a new dalmatian. What do I do?”
How on Earth did I figure my dog was crying? I do kind of remember the dalmatian being mean to her though.
1990:
“Yesterday was Thanksgiving… Beth and I even got to drink out of wine glasses.
Awesome!!! That’s like totally the most exciting thing EVER.
1991:

“Beth is being so so so so mean. She’s calling me a jerk. When she’s one!”
Ew, first of all, we weren’t allowed to use the word “jerk” in my house, so hopefully my sister got in trouble for this. And I wonder what we were fighting about.
1991:
“Our septic system is wrong. We might not get to go to Water Country. What should I do?”
I vividly remember this day. It was my dad’s work outing to Water Country. And our septic system broke and we had to get a new one. We didn’t go to Water Country because my parents had to deal with this. I had NO idea what a septic system was; I just knew it was “wrong.”
1991:
“I still love Nick. He is my dream boy.”
OK, 9-year-old, Susie. I’m sure you totally knew who your dream boy was.
1992:
“Guess what? Peachy got put to sleep today. I am so so sad; I could cry all my life. I watched it all. She fell asleep on my leg. Now she’s in heaven. I loved her so much; she was my best friend.”

Saddest day EVER. Not even lying. Nothing this bad has happened to me since. It was the first time I saw my dad cry. And I STILL miss her all the time. I wasn’t lying when I said I could cry all my life.
1994:

“Here’s a picture of J.L. [Joey Lawrence]! I like him so much that I actually covered up a picture of Jason Priestly to put him here! Chelsee gave me a poster of Joey Lawrence! I’m going downstairs now to see when Blossom’s on!”

OK, really? I thought he was crazy hot. Ugh. And thanks Chels, for being such a fabulous friend even back then.

push it up.

April 8th, 2009
Today I started the 100-pushup challenge. I know. ME?! Yes. I’m not even doing it because I particularly want to do 100 pushups. I’m doing it because I am pretty positive there is no way in heaven or Earth that I can possibly do 100 pushups in a row. NO WAY. So I’m forcing myself to do this so I can prove the challenge faulty and that some people are just not made to do 100 pushups. Ever.
I had heard about the challenge before, but ignored it due to its total implausibility. Then someone mentioned they were forming a group on tumblr for people who wanted to do the challenge. I made some comment about how it was ridiculous. Then they invited me to the group. And I joined. And decided ehhh why not. What do I have to lose besides a few minutes every day?
I started today and it actually wasn’t too bad. The site tells me exactly how many pushups I need to do each day. Today I did 5 sets of 6, 6, 4, 4, 10. The last set you just do as many as you can. And I did 10! Woot! That’s 1/10 of my goal! And I didn’t die, which actually kind of surprised me.
Then I got to thinking… What if I do end up completing the challenge? What if I can do 100 pushups in a row? Will I end up looking like this??
But hopefully not so green? I don’t know if I even want to be able to do 100 pushups. Won’t that make me like some sort of super human or something? But. I cannot turn down a challenge. So if it makes me into the Hulk, so be it.
Ugh, my arms are starting to hurt already. We’ll see how long this lasts.

help. in japanese. tasukete.

April 6th, 2009

About a year ago, I bought a book titled “Japanese for Busy People.”* How appropriate, right? I want to learn Japanese and I am a busy people, so this is perfect. However, little did I know, the book still requires that one takes the time to actually read it. No matter how busy you are, you need to find at least a few moments to glance at the pages. They should put a disclaimer on the book or something.
Upon my massive amounts of research, it was brought to my attention that buying the romanized version of the book wasn’t a good choice. I needed to buy the “Kana” version so that I could learn to read Japanese while I was learning to speak it. OK, done. But herein lies the problem.
I cannot read the book.
Because the book is written in Japanese.
Japanese symbols.
That I cannot read.
So the logical thing is to learn to read Kana, right? Well sure, it
sounds all easy. But Kana is actually made up of two alphabets, Hiragana and Katakana. And it’s not exactly a snap to learn them. But I started trying about a year ago. There are lots of fun little cheesy tricks you can memorize to learn the symbols. Like this:

This is “Ni” in Hiragana. Because it looks like someone on their “KNees.” “NI” Right? Right?? I told you this wasn’t easy. Anyway, I actually got a majority of the way through, save for a few characters that constantly tripped me up and had no fun memorization tricks. Like this one:Which is “Wa.” Really? How on Earth do I remember that’s “Wa”?? Any advice is appreciated. Maybe you see something I don’t.

Then like got a bit busy, otherwise known as I took a little break. And when I went back I had to start at the beginning.
And that’s where I’m at now. The beginning. I have about a million flashcards I made last year and now I need to re-utilize them until I have everything re-memorized.
This is incredibly frustrating to me because hiii, I just want to read, speak, and write the language, but I don’t have millions of hours to spend. You see, I am essentially TOO BUSY FOR JAPANESE FOR BUSY PEOPLE. And I need a book titled so, “Japanese for People Who are Too Busy for Japanese for Busy People,” yes? I think that one would sell quite well.

(I mean, come on, look at the dude. He’s running off to work, cell phone in hand, and he’s still finding the time to learn Japanese? Le sigh. Maybe I really am just pathetic.)
In all seriousness, if you or someone you love has learned Japanese in a semi-efficient yet thorough manner, please fill me in. I do want to read it along with speaking it, so I have a sneaking suspicion there’s no easy-ish way. But if there’s one that involves running to work (not that I have an actual job to run to) with my briefcase (which I don’t yet own) and cellphone (check, I’ve got that!) and having Japanese just magically sink into my head, I would love to know. Because I wasn’t aware Japanese for Busy People actually wanted me to open the book. If they did, they should have written it in a language I could understand. Gosh.
*OK, so it was actually in January of 2008. My how time flies.

in which you discover i haven’t disappeared forever.

April 4th, 2009

OK, I’m back. I know, I know. I kept delaying writing a post because it had been so long. And my first post back really needed to be super good, right? Well, I kept starting it and then stopping it. And then I decided I was just going to jump in and start blogging here again. So I am.

I missed it here! Here are some quick life updates so we can get this show on the road:

We are not Martha:

Still going fabulously! I’m sooo happy Chels and I decided to start this venture a little over a year ago. It’s already brought us SO many awesome things, like being able to attend a Martha Stewart Show taping; getting to meet tons of awesome food bloggers; and having the opportunity to try a whole lot of fun products. Also, we were recently featured in the Boston Globe. And we just did a taping for How2Heroes, which should be up on their website soon. The other day, Chels and I said, “I wonder where we’ll be a year from now…” I’m excited to find out! In the meantime, you should follow us on twitter (@wearenotmartha) and join our Facebook page.

My jobs:

Still have a bunch of them and still always looking for more (Boston rent+grad school loans+sister’s wedding+having fun=not cheap)! Since I know you all lurvee hearing about my jobs I’m going to tell you about a couple. Really, I’m telling you because this blog is titled “Everyone Loves a Boston Girl” and therefore I have a duty to tell you all things important in Boston.

Important in Boston like going out to eat, shopping, and having spa days? Well, kind of. I know the economy sucks right now, but you can still do these things! How? Well, with the new company I just became Community Manager for. It’s called Groupon and it basically offers a deal-a-day on something cool to do in the city. Yes I work for them, but I’m also partaking in tons of the deals. Like the deal the other day for the Savant Project in Brigham Circle. You only have to pay $20 and you get a $40 gift card. I’m also psyched to use my 2 mani-pedis (for $39!!) at CQI salon. There’s also a Groupon for Chicago!

I’m writing the weekly music column for College Candy, which I’m having tons of fun with because I get to write about another one of my passions… music. I’m definitely a way beginner when it comes to music writing, but I’m kind of hoping this will lead to other opportunities.

And I’m still working for Guidespot, now as a Ambassador, which is super fun. You should all be on Guidespot because we like to represent all cities. You can sign up, create new guides, add to community guides, and just have fun. Some of the guides are hilarious and everyone on the site is super nice.

Sister’s wedding stuff:

I went to her Chicago shower a couple weeks ago and had tons of fun. But I’m even more ridiculously excited for her Boston shower, which we’ve been spending lots of time planning. The theme is crazy awesome and the invites that Chels made are amazing. But I’ll have to wait to share all that with you until the shower is over (May 9).

The Bachelor/Bachelorette party is in July and is a cruise to the Bahamas! It’s going to be absolutely amazing and I cannot wait. However, my bank account hates me right now.

I’m mostly excited that my sister invited me to the food tasting. The wedding is going to be at the Westin Copley and I’m pretty psyched to try out their food and help in the reception meal decisions. Yes, these are the things that make me happy.

Other stuff:

I don’t admit I’m wrong very much, but I’ll admit I was wrong in claiming PCs are better than Macs. It’s not even so much that I believed it, I was just sick of people making fun of me for having a PC. Well, another PC decided to die on me, and I’m now a Mac user. And I’ll never look back. There. I admitted I was wrong. And stubborn.

There’s now a tab on Blogger that says “Monetize.” Never noticed that before.

I need a blog re-design. I also need to go do some MAJOR Google reader catch-up. I mean it this time!!

Lots more that will be updates as I’m not back to blogging regularly. Yuppp.

i love 2008.

December 29th, 2008

Hope you all had fabulous holidays! The Christmas spirit eventually came to me and I had a really great time with my family. Also, I finally got the Kitchen Aid I’ve long dreamed about. Obviously, if you know me, you know how happyyy this makes me. And now the year is basically over.

2008 has been pretty damn good to me. My best year yet. Which I guess is something I hope to be saying for every year in the future. But in any event, 2008 was particularly amazing.

  • I made it through an entire year of working for myself, doing what I love, and not being in an office. I still actually really miss the office part, but since the economy basically sucks right now, I’m just ridiculously thankful that I can make a living doing something I’ve always wanted to do. Not to mention, I can wake up whenever I want, I don’t have to deal with annoying co-workers (over phone and e-mail is soo much easier), and I can sit in Starbucks all day if I feel like it. And I feel like it a lot. I really cannot complain.
  • I started We are not Martha with my fabulous friend, Chels, and can’t even remember what life was like without it. Things happened like us getting invited to the Martha Stewart Show (dreams can come true!) and people asking us for advice and us actually starting to make some money on the blog. We used to be psyched for 100 unique visitors a day, but now we expect 700+ and one day even saw 10,000. Basically, it’s amazing to do something you love and actually have people care. Even more amazing is to be doing it with one of your best friends and to feel like you’re part of a team that has some serious goals.

  • I cooked and baked A LOT (see above). I learned tons. And I cooked a ton with Sara who I never thought would cook.

  • I was single for all of 2008. And it was all fabulous. I actually dated a whole bunch, which I think was really amazingly good for me. I learned that I don’t like a lot of people and it’s OK not to go on a second date. And sometimes it’s OK to just not call someone back if they’re really not getting the point. I used to be too nice. I’m not anymore. I think that was like a 2007 resolution or something.

  • I finally saw Ryan Adams in concert. I also saw Bryan Adams. And The Hold Steady and Drive-By Truckers. And Coldplay twice. And Jason Mraz. I hope 2009 involves just as much good music.

  • My sister got engaged. And in 2009, I will have a brother-in-law who pretty much fits the mold of exactly what I always imagined a brother to be. That means that we get along really well and that he teases me mercilessly, but that he also teams up with me. And that was a pretty fabulous thing to happen in 2008. Yay!

  • I started to get in shape. I’m one of those people who will work out for a couple weeks and then forget about it for a few months, then start over. But since I joined the gym this year, I’ve been super consistent about going. I’ve seriously fallen in love with my pilates class and also remembered how much I love running (even if I hate treadmills). Plus, I can go during the day when pretty much nobody is there and the staff all know me. Even though I’ve gained 10 pounds since joining the gym, I’m chalking it up to muscle. Right.

  • I spent my first full year NOT in school since I was like 4 years old. This was scary to me, but probably a year off was good for me. I did not think I was going to be able to handle it. I’m weird I guess, but school was just a way of life for me and I thrived on it. I think because I freelance and always have “home work,” I don’t miss it quite as much as I thought I would.

And now I can’t wait to see what 2009 brings. I at least know it’s going to involve a wedding and all kinds of crazy celebrations before then. Like a cruise. Yay. And I think 2009 will bring all other sorts of fabulousness too.

Did you love 2008 as much as I did??

wait. santa clause is coming to town?

December 12th, 2008
Help! I’m still not in the Christmas mood. This is really distressing to me, considering it’s December 11. I’ve tried many different tactics like online shopping (meh, not feeling it), wandering through the Commons and seeing the tree and watching people skate (nope), baking lots of holiday cookies (yummy, but that’s all), and sitting in Starbucks for hours listening to their Christmas music over and over and over (annoying).

NOTHING is happening inside me! I don’t understand. It’s never taken me this long to be all holly jolly like. I heard about people going to holiday parties this week and I LOLed. What? It seemed so early. And then I realized that people had been going to holiday parties for weeks now. Where have I been? Clearly not being invited to holiday parties.

This weekend I’ll do a bit of shopping and celebrating and hopefully will feel something. I also have a pretty busy next couple of weeks going out and doing semi-holiday-ish stuff, so let’s hope that works. I want to be merry and happy and excited for the holidays. Like now.

Oh, wait. I just got distracted by a television commercial and spent the last 15 minutes look at
this website. It is an indoor water park!!!! How amazing is that? I seriously wish I had thought of the idea to build this place. I need to go and soon. Boston friends, come with? And I think I just discovered my problem…I wasn’t quite ready for summer to be over. So now instead of being excited for snow and Santa, I want to hang out at indoor water parks.

If you can’t afford a tropical vacation, take one to CoCoKey. Please?

fabulousness.

December 3rd, 2008

Here are some of the fabulous things I’ve been up to lately:

Michelle of Gooseberried came to Boston! With 6-6! She was only in town with enough time for a quick lunch, but it was so awesome to meet her. Her blog is one of the first I started reading long ago, so I already pretty much felt like I knew her. How did we even find each others blogs? I don’t remember at all, but I’m so glad we did. And now I need to plan a trip to Arizona to visit her!
Oh, hi. This is only one of my very favorite people IN THE WORLD. And doesn’t he look absolutely thrilled to be with me?! Well, that was my mom’s fault. See, the first picture she “took,” she didn’t actually “take.” You know how moms are. So as we’re walking out, I decide to double check and oh, what do you know? No picture on the camera. So I made her do it again. I don’t think he was really annoyed; just his expression. AND he remembered me from when I interviewed him for a paper a couple years ago. Most magazine editors wouldn’t give me the time of day for grad school paper interviews, but he took time out of his busy schedule to chat with me. And he’s not just a magazine editor, but a television celebrity, book publisher, etc. etc. Anyway, now I’d love for him to interview me for a job at his test kitchen. Ahem. Anyway, in case you don’t know, this is Christopher Kimball of America’s Test Kitchen/Cook’s Illustrated. I went to his cooking demo/discussion and obviously enjoyed myself immensely.

Another thing I’m really excited about is the fact that I’m now writing a music review column for College Candy!! You can read my first column here if you want. If you read my blog, you obviously know how into music I am (and and all kinds), so I’m super psyched to have the opportunity to write about it. This week is pretty mainstream (because hi, Brit’s CD came out!), but I’m hoping to get into some more indie music, less known stuff soon!

Uhh I know I talk about tumblr ALL THE TIME. But that’s how fabulous it is. Seriously. Yes, I spend a little too much time on there when I should be doing other things. Yes, I love blogger. But tumblr is different. So I wrote up a guide on why I love tumblr for people who don’t have tumblr. The bottom line? I honestly think tumblr is the future of blogging and social media as a whole. Annd you don’t want to miss out on that. So join it. And follow me.

In other cooking fun, Chels took me to Stir for my birthday present. We obviously wrote all about it on We are not Martha. But I had to share this picture of ravioli with an egg yolk in it. In a sauce that was made of pretty much just butter. HEAVEN. As were the truffles we had. This was one of the best experiences of my life and makes me thrilled to be a Boston girl. Can’t wait to go back.

And the rest of the week I’m devoting to catching up on my reader. Also, I had much more to say that has escaped my tired head, so will be back for more ASAP!

more stuff to love.

November 19th, 2008

Because I basically just like talking about the stuff I love. And the stuff that makes me happy. It doesn’t take much, but it’s the little things in life, right?

My new Saucony sneakers:


I’ve been having serious issues. I’m not usually what I call an “issue person,” but my foot really started bothering me a couple weeks ago. I knew I desperately needed new sneakers and when my foot developed what I’m pretty positive is a stress fracture, I thought, “Well, now’s as good a time as any.” I went over to Marathon Sports in Brookline and they helped me pick out some new kicks (and made me run up and down Beacon St. a few times). The second the girl brought these out for me to try on, I knew I was going to love them because they’re so not me (bright green? ick). But they are seriously growing on me now and I actually don’t mind how they look. Not to mention, my last sneakers were an adorable pair of pink Nikes. Super cute, but not made for my feet at all. Hence my issues. And why I had to go comfort over cuteness. I honestly don’t think I’ll ever buy a pair of sneakers that isn’t Saucony again. They are the only brand that has ever felt good to me.

Maybe my future Saucony sneakers:

I can’t really run until my foot is better, but I’ve been working out on the cross trainer and bike a lot. Once I’m able to run and I am fully convinced these are the sneakers of my dreams, I might have to snag a pair of these. Because yes, they are so much more me.

Mitzi and Cissy:

Yup, I’m with the girlies again. And they always make me happy. Except when they’re driving me crazy by following my everywhere, barking their heads off, and licking my face non-stop. But they’re adorable so I can’t really complain.

Marthsa Stewart and Snoop Dog:


Just because this is absolutely the best thing I’ve ever seen in my life. Again, reason #8439 why I love Martha Stewart

Rembrandt Mouthwash:

I don’t know. But I’m a huge fan of Rembandt’s new image. It’s so clean and sleek and definitely sucked me in. I’m an Act girl myself, but I couldn’t resist the packaging on this Rembrandt mouthwash.

My new t-shirt. And yours too?

Remember my new and awesome t-shirt? Well, now you can have one too!! Tres Ladies is giving away a t-shirt to a reader of We are not Martha. All you have to do is go over to the We are not Martha blog and leave a comment about the tees. I got my tee and it’s seriously awesome, completely comfortable, and pretty much perfect. Yay.